Being bitter because someone hurt you is all bad. It's unattractive, makes you look stupid, shows to everyone that you're hurt and don't know how to move on and most importantly it makes you lose out on the possibility of someone good. Now if all you want is for someone good to treat you good, why would you purposely jeopardize your chances to receive that? After being hurt, especially more than once, it's more than understandable to want to keep your guard up. But just like many things in life, this is a huge game of trial and error. Of course with exceptions, there's no way of getting around failing a few times. But if you just get through it and make the DECISION to not be bitter and hold onto the past, you will eventually come across someone who will be worth putting yourself back out there time and time again. But in being bitter, you won't find that person, or worse, you'll find them but won't be able to realize it.
Being bitter is in a way giving the person who hurt you power. Do you want that person to know that they found a way to hurt you, and while they've moved on you still can't get over it? That means that you constantly have them and what they've done on your mind. Take control of yourself, your emotions and decide to move on.
Being bitter is in a way giving the person who hurt you power. Do you want that person to know that they found a way to hurt you, and while they've moved on you still can't get over it? That means that you constantly have them and what they've done on your mind. Take control of yourself, your emotions and decide to move on.
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