Commitment

People say a title is a title, how u feel determines what you've got. But then those people turn around and say don't trip over what's not yours. I get it. A title is a title for a reason though. But really, if you aren't mine before the title, you probably won't ever be. People don't get that establishing a relationship doesn't start the relationship. When two people decide to be committed to only each other, that's the start. And if you're doing things proper, a commitment should be started beforehand. That makes sense because if you're busy giving others your attention still, you're not giving the one you're trying to be with enough attention to know when you're truly ready to establish something. I think people are so busy wondering what they're missing out on that they stay too hesitant to focus on what they have right in front of them. When you appreciate all that a person has to offer you won't feel the need or want to wonder what anyone else can offer you. You should be confident that you have the best there is to offer. Be confident in your abilities and what you can bring to the table and make sure to put forth that same effort, and you should have no problem with committing to them. Take your fear away from the equation, all you'll have left is your emotions and the other person's. If you're confident in how you feel and how they feel, take the risk of committing and accepting a new type of happiness.