Being that it's 2012, I think we've forgotten our roles as men and women when it comes to a relationship. Now it could all just be my little opinion, but here's the way I see things: IN GENERAL, the man should lead and the woman should follow. Together you should be acknowledging and understanding what it takes to work together and how to become better people, to be better for yourselves and each other. Now if you two can handle building each other up together, that's a great start. A man should be the one to lead the two of you to what's right, a woman is there to make sure you two stay on the right track. You're supposed to protect your woman and it's not just about keeping her safe from physical harm. It's about protecting her emotions and well-being as well. You should be making sure she has what she needs to feel nothing but comfortable and stable while she's with or without you. And the woman should be doing the exact same to make sure you feel confident and proud that you're doing right by her. We've all heard the saying, "happy wife, happy life", well I believe it's nothing but truth. I don't think it's simply saying make your wife happy to be happy. To me, it's saying when you do what you need for your woman to be happy, she will go above and beyond to make sure you are happier. A woman's job is to take care of her man, and she needs to know that she is taken care of in order to do that. So no matter how accepted the new role of a woman is...ambitious, successful, mad independent, when it comes down to the relationship we all need to learn how to separate the different parts of our lives to create what can be the next best thing in your life.
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