People come into your life as a lesson or to stay. But some people actually come into your life not only to teach you great lessons, but to be there to make sure you continue to see them through. Look at this as how you learn to trust. Those people who really actually help you, you give them more of your attention to really figure out if they deserve to stay in your life. Easy way to determine that is to ask yourself if they can continue to help you throughout your life. Trusting the wrong people sometimes is not your fault at all, you're human, you have to make that 50/50 choice of who you can trust. We make mistakes and although trusting the wrong people can be a HUGE mistake, its a mistake nonetheless and you just have to deal with it. We, naturally, tend to pay attention to the people who don't deserve our trust so much that we miss out on the ones who actually are showing that they're trustworthy. Just like everything else in life, it's so easy to focus on the negative happenings because they're so much more prominent to us. But when you stop and actually take a look at what's right, you'll soon begin to see clearer and understand who's really there for you and deserving of your trust, and who is there just to teach you how to weed out the untrustworthy jerks. Use everyone that enters your life; and I mean "use" in a positive way. If someone is willing to be and showing they want to be apart of your life, let them! Those usually turn out to be the people who see your struggle and pain and want to do nothing more than to help you overcome all of it. Some people actually do see past your flaws enough to see the great person you know yourself to be. Don't push these people away, embrace them. Give them your attention. Pay attention to the positive people in your life. They will help you get ahead a lot faster than focusing on how much more you have to do/be to deal with the negative people in your life. Believe it or not, as hard as it is to trust, time and time again, its much easier to give that away than to always hold back and hold in how you really want to be and what's really best for yourself. In the long run, you will have done YOURSELF, no one else, a favor by trusting YOURSELF to trust others. It all begins within. You have to believe in yourself to do and be a better you to believe that someone else could also see that in you. If you don't see how much you're worth, you won't believe that anyone else can see your worth either. If you don't first love yourself, you won't see how much someone else could truly love you. If you don't trust yourself, you won't be able to trust others. If you don't know your self-worth, you don't know how much you should be worth to others. If you only see the negative, you'll ONLY receive the negative. Learn to trust AND have faith in those you trust, and you'll see a new and different outcome than you've ever seen before. But if you halfheartedly do so, you'll only notice the people who only halfway want you.
People come into your life as a lesson or to stay. But some people actually come into your life not only to teach you great lessons, but to be there to make sure you continue to see them through. Look at this as how you learn to trust. Those people who really actually help you, you give them more of your attention to really figure out if they deserve to stay in your life. Easy way to determine that is to ask yourself if they can continue to help you throughout your life. Trusting the wrong people sometimes is not your fault at all, you're human, you have to make that 50/50 choice of who you can trust. We make mistakes and although trusting the wrong people can be a HUGE mistake, its a mistake nonetheless and you just have to deal with it. We, naturally, tend to pay attention to the people who don't deserve our trust so much that we miss out on the ones who actually are showing that they're trustworthy. Just like everything else in life, it's so easy to focus on the negative happenings because they're so much more prominent to us. But when you stop and actually take a look at what's right, you'll soon begin to see clearer and understand who's really there for you and deserving of your trust, and who is there just to teach you how to weed out the untrustworthy jerks. Use everyone that enters your life; and I mean "use" in a positive way. If someone is willing to be and showing they want to be apart of your life, let them! Those usually turn out to be the people who see your struggle and pain and want to do nothing more than to help you overcome all of it. Some people actually do see past your flaws enough to see the great person you know yourself to be. Don't push these people away, embrace them. Give them your attention. Pay attention to the positive people in your life. They will help you get ahead a lot faster than focusing on how much more you have to do/be to deal with the negative people in your life. Believe it or not, as hard as it is to trust, time and time again, its much easier to give that away than to always hold back and hold in how you really want to be and what's really best for yourself. In the long run, you will have done YOURSELF, no one else, a favor by trusting YOURSELF to trust others. It all begins within. You have to believe in yourself to do and be a better you to believe that someone else could also see that in you. If you don't see how much you're worth, you won't believe that anyone else can see your worth either. If you don't first love yourself, you won't see how much someone else could truly love you. If you don't trust yourself, you won't be able to trust others. If you don't know your self-worth, you don't know how much you should be worth to others. If you only see the negative, you'll ONLY receive the negative. Learn to trust AND have faith in those you trust, and you'll see a new and different outcome than you've ever seen before. But if you halfheartedly do so, you'll only notice the people who only halfway want you.
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