Simplify

It's easy to see the bad in a situation, so when things get complicated it's so easy to blame it on those bad problems. In every situation you should ask yourself if there is another solution. Just because what you've tried doesn't work doesn't always mean that's the end of it. When you have a problem and you give up because your first couple of solutions didn't work, or because it's much harder than you thought it'd be, you're now further complicating the situation. It seems like when we have our own ideas about how easy or difficult a situation should go and it doesn't go that way, we have the right to get upset. Not the case. We need to learn that our mental plans of everyday situations does not and will not always go how we want, so giving up or getting more upset helps nothing. Trying to find another solution to the matter is the best way to make, or even attempt to make things better. The easier you try to make it, the easier it could be. Acting as if your solution not working is the end of it only complicates it more. Simplifying your life and situations in your life has a lot to do with finding another way. Think about how you will find a way to see your boyfriend or girlfriend no matter what, even for just one hour. Find that motivation to simplify every other situation you come across instead of finding ways or reasons to further complicate them. And when you've done ALL you can do, even if it doesn't work out for you, you will be at peace because you without a doubt know that it's out of your control. If you know complicating makes life harder, why not try ALL you can to simplify to make life easier and happier?