Tests

I'm not saying people need to stay in not-so-good situations longer, but people do need to have more hope. The first sign of a problem, an argument that isn't immediately fixed, etc, people are so quick to say it's time to leave. Relationships don't always start perfectly. Just because you're not together or you haven't been together long doesn't mean you immediately give up. Those problems are usually "tests". A test to see how much you actually want it. If you feel as though you deserve someone and something great, then prove it. You're naturally going to go through stuff, but you have to want it to make it last and prove that you deserve it by getting through these tests. If you can't solve issues when you feel as though they shouldn't matter, how are the two of you going to get through the tests that are directly tied to your relationship lasting longer? You have to start learning somewhere. Stop waiting for a specific time, "title", or perfect person to realize that you have to put in true effort and work for what you deserve.