The Right Things

When you've matured enough, you should be looking for someone that you can see yourself growing to love, granted that's what you want. As hard as it may be for some to believe, when you truly start thinking with your actual brain and trusting your heart, rather than your genitals, you'll realize that finding someone who truly accepts you for you is number one. When you stop focusing on the superficial, you'll notice who's there for you, not what you have. You'll begin to notice that some people only see that you're amazing enough to fall for and eventually fall in love with. Amazing sex, the "baddest", spends money on you, all the not-so-important stuff can be a good bonus that comes along with the person who accepts you for you, but should not be seen as top priorities in the person you want.
When you do meet this person, you should learn to start off as friends. This is crucial because you should be friends with your boyfriend/girlfriend. You'll have serious problems if you don't think that's your friend. Although it should, "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" does not equal the definition of "friend" to everyone. Be friends first and then let that translate into your relationship. I think it goes without saying what a true friend is, so having that foundation is a great start to a relationship. You find someone who accepts you for you, and you build a lasting friendship with them. If you both know you want more, it will be the easiest transition because you already have that genuine trust, comfort and security in this one person.