As much as arguing can suck, it's a good thing because it shows that you care enough to try to talk through your problems than ignore or drop them. I'm personally not sure of too many ppl who honestly care that will blatantly ignore whatever problems arise between the two of you. That's not to say that arguing a lot is acceptable, but it also isn't a death sentence to your relationship. Pay attention to what you are arguing about & how it affects them, rather than trying to be right or just getting it over with. Arguing may not necessarily be a positive act, but the solutions you come up with can and will take you in a positive direction.
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